Gay Belonging

Gay pride and self-acceptance should go hand in hand, but often find themselves coming to blows when it's Gay Pride Month. Why? Dealing with Beliefs and Attitudes about Pride Navigating gay pride can be frustrating, especially when beliefs and attitudes swing to the extreme. On one extreme is

When profiles reveal more about your selfie skills than your true self, it's no wonder the concept of vulnerability can feel so alien. What Is Vulnerability? Vulnerability is a state of openness that can potentially leave you at risk for being harmed—physically or emotionally. In that context,

If you're a member of the Gay Lonely Hearts Club, the thought of spending Valentine's alone and partnerless makes you either want to cry, cringe, or shrug. Looking for Connection Whether it's a fake holiday or not, Valentine's is right up there

Coming out can feel frustrating, confusing, and embarrassing for some guys. If you’re not into rainbows, tight-fitting shorts, or going shirtless, where do you belong? Understand Your Personal Context In When the Past Is Present – Healing the Emotional Wounds That Sabotage Our Relationships, author David Richo writes: “The enduring

Coming out can feel like being thrown into the wilderness and having to fend for yourself without a map. Things get messy when you’ve got all these other guys wandering around with you, experiencing their own version of the wilderness, complete with beliefs, perceptions and baggage totally different from

Trouble finding your place? Belonging is fundamental to survival, but it can also feel hard to come by. Belonging is a survival mechanism. Having people around you, a group, clique, whatever — it’s a form of protection. The tough part for gay guys however is that for the most part