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Becoming Somebody When You Feel Like a Gay Nobody

My cousins used to joke with me that when I was little and they asked me what my name was, I’d answer, “Nobody.” What an existential thinker my 8-year-old self was. The Struggle of Feeling Alienated from Yourself The world says we’re nobody until we make something of

by David, Jan 05, 2025

Haunted by Holiday Ghosts of Comparison, Loss, or Loneliness?

Sometimes the holiday season is anything but joyful. For many of us, it can come with mixed emotions and a feeling that something's missing. It's a time of year that can be especially triggering if you're gay, magnifying everything from memories of dashed hopes

by David, Dec 22, 2024

"Thanks, but No Thanks" Handling Family Drama with Grace

Thanksgiving should be about gratitude and connection, and community, but when you’re gay, navigating the holiday table often comes with an additional layer of angst. Protect Your Peace by Setting Boundaries Setting boundaries isn’t about shutting people out making the dinner table a place you have to prove

by David, Nov 27, 2024

He's a Sexy Gay and You Know It (Or Do You?)

Navigating today’s world of dating apps, bar culture, and social media, the definition of “sexy” feels more loaded than ever. The Sex[y] Evolution of Gay Culture What makes a gay man sexy? Is it a sculpted six-pack or a deep, genuine laugh? A magnetic presence or a kind,

by David, Nov 15, 2024

Is It Just Another Gay Groundhog Day?

I read an interesting article about "groundhogging." There's a name for everything these days, isn't there? But I got this one immediately. What Is Groundhogging? The concept and premise comes from the Bill Murray movie, Groundhog Day, where Murray's character is forced

by David, Jul 15, 2024

Managing Gay Anxiety on the Daily

I don't know about you, but anxiety is pretty much a daily reality for me. I read a little tidbit from Zendaya in a recent Vogue article: "I think sometimes people assume that because of what they see of me, maybe I'm a certain way.

by David, Jun 13, 2024

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